Performance can hide a divided life, but it can’t heal it.

High performers are excellent at covering the crack. Titles, revenue, and a full calendar look like health. They can also be camouflage.

If your values only show up in private, they aren’t strong enough to hold your life together. The scoreboard will not save you from that.

Healing starts when you stop using performance as proof, and start using congruence as the measure.